The Pioneer of the Rebirth Era - #2021 - Vol 2 Chapter 1996: Keep it simple
“What is the constitution of this engagement banquet?”
The uncle, who was a little depressed after drinking less alcohol in the hotel, began to scratch his head again.
“Didn’t you say, they’re here according to their rules, and we’re here according to our rules.” The aunt turned over and was too lazy to pay attention to her husband.
I haven’t had a drink for one night, and I’ve been making noise like ants crawling all over my body. I can’t sleep well.
“Trouble, why don’t you just get married.” The uncle couldn’t help scratching his mouth with his hand. Every night, he was dizzy and slowly fell asleep. Today, he felt uncomfortable even if he turned over without drinking.
“Just get married and not get engaged?” Auntie snorted, thinking that she didn’t want to pay attention to her husband, but what he said was what she cared about, so she couldn’t help but reply.
“Hey…what’s the matter.”
“Why don’t you let you drink, it’s not a good thing for your son to get married?” The aunt suddenly got up and stared at her husband.
“Did I mean that? I just think it’s too much going back and forth.”
“Are you afraid of tossing? You just want to drink. As long as you are allowed to drink, you can run faster than anyone else, and you won’t be bothered at all.”
“Didn’t I drink today?” The uncle turned over and put the quilt over his head.
“If you don’t drink it for a day, don’t drink it when you have the ability! And… if you want to sleep, you can sleep. If you don’t want to sleep on the sofa outside, I still want to sleep if you don’t sleep.”
“Sleep, sleep, who said not to sleep.” The uncle responded angrily.
The uncle and aunt in the hotel were talking about the engagement. After Dong Yao’s family sent away the neighbor opposite, Dong Yao’s parents were also considering this issue.
“What’s the process of getting married in their hometown?” Dong Yao’s mother couldn’t help but ask her daughter.
“How many times have you asked. They just got married in a grand way, and there was no big deal about engagement. Basically, it was about getting engaged, and the man began to bow.
Then the woman’s parents can accompany her to have a meal, or they can ask a few relatives and friends to accompany her. The man who is engaged does not invite guests to dinner.
We have to wait until we get married. The ceremony is actually an engagement, and we are already married. Because the ceremony is to agree on the marriage time, the first three days of the ceremony, and then the wedding.
Or in other words, like me and Applejack, get engaged first, and then get married when there is nothing to do. But they don’t invite guests to dinner for such an engagement.
It is to give a gift to the daughter, and then when the wedding day is agreed, the man will get married after the big gift.
Get engaged and hold an engagement party like on TV, get married and hold a wedding party or something. There is no such thing in Ajie’s hometown. In short, if the engagement is simple, the marriage will be a big deal! “
“It’s similar to our side.” Dong Yao’s mother said.
In fact, not only in Anhui Province and Yunnan, but also in ordinary families across the country, there is no such thing as a wedding banquet, and then a banquet after marriage, and then a reception from relatives and friends.
Most of the time, it is simple when you are engaged, and big when you are married. Many people even get married without a proper marriage proposal.
“What kind of gift did they give when they got engaged?” Dong Yao’s father asked, “What kind of gift do we return here?”
“We don’t need to return gifts, and they don’t give any gifts, just buy some gifts for you two elders. Buy me some clothes, and then buy a red box, or buy a wedding ring for the two of us, and nothing else.”
“Then let’s keep it simple. It’s better to wait until the wedding is lively and lively.” Dong Yao’s mother said.
In fact, after knowing the identity of Yang Dongjie’s cousin, she felt a little bit of a drum in her heart, and she felt that such a quiet engagement would be good.
In case there were some twists and turns before getting married, it wouldn’t be too embarrassing when the engagement was small, wasn’t it?
If you really want to get married when the time comes, it’s not too late to be lively.
“What are the rules of engagement here in our family? Didn’t we say that they came here according to their rules, and we came here according to our rules?”
“Our family doesn’t pay much attention to it, so we just follow this. As long as they don’t pay attention to it, it will be fine.” Dong Yao’s father said, he also thinks it’s good to have such a simple engagement. .
That’s why I have to make sure with my wife again and again, because I’m worried about whether a wealthy family like the Yang family is very particular about it.
“You’ll know after getting along a bit more. Although Ajie’s family is rich, his cousin is so capable. But in fact, their family still retains the simplicity of the countryside, without the publicity you want from the rich.
So in the future, if you treat their family as an ordinary family, you will actually get along more harmoniously. What I said is true, their family is really not that particular about it. Basically, how ordinary people do weddings, their families also do weddings.
What about going abroad to get married, getting married in a big hotel, or getting married in a high-end island, there is no such thing. In short, how the people in their village get married, their family will come.
At most, there are more guests, and maybe others will pay more for gifts. UU reading www.uukanshu.com As for the honeymoon after marriage, that is the matter between Ajie and I after marriage, and nothing else is involved. “Dong Yao still has the confidence to say these words.
After all, after traveling for so long, from the relatives and elders of the Yang family, you can also feel what kind of family style the Yang family is.
Seriously, if you remove the luxury hotels, remove the round-trip charter flights. When you meet the Yang family on the street, it feels no different from meeting other ordinary people.
When buying things, the Yang family also bargains the price, eats discounted foods that are about to expire, and likes cheap and easy-to-use things.
There is no strict requirement that those rich people wear gold and silver, and even the toilet is made of gold.
So as long as you get along with the Yang family with a normal attitude, you will get along very comfortably.
It is the identity of Yang Dongjie’s cousin who is placed here. It is estimated that his parents will find it difficult to adapt to get along with the Yang family with a normal mentality.
“Then it’s good, so don’t shout about relatives and friends. Don’t they want to play in Kunming for a few days? You accompany them for a few days.
If you buy a ring or something, just look at it, and find time to sit and have a meal together, even if the marriage is settled in this way. Then discuss the date of your wedding. “Dong Yao’s father said.
“Then let’s have dinner together tomorrow, Ajie’s cousin and sister-in-law are very busy. We’ll discuss the wedding date at dinner tomorrow, and Ajie and I can buy anything at any time.
If you can’t go back to Yanjing, you can buy it again. Anyway, even if the wedding date is set, I guess it will be until the end of the year or the beginning of next year. There are times when you want to buy something and take your time. “Dong Yao said.
“That’s fine.” Dong Yao’s parents nodded.
Then the rich must be in a hurry, and it is indeed not suitable for delaying other people’s time.