The Reborn Wife is Farming - Chapter 1423 Fan Zijin (40)
Xiao An glanced at his father, did not dare to apologize to his fourth uncle, but hugged his neck tightly, and peeked at his father’s face.
Fan Zijin glanced at his son with a serious face, and said to Qi Haoran, “There are more children, and they are willing to listen to what they have to say, so let’s raise them together.”
In the end, Qi Haoran didn’t ask how he bullied the child, but Xiaoan stayed in Qi’s house permanently.
In the past, he only played here during the day because the children were good, but now he has passed the Ming Road, and Fan Zijin officially handed over his education and part of the custody rights to Fan Zijin.
Xiaoan stayed at Qi’s house even more confidently, and came to play with three friends after getting up every day, and went home in the evening.
Sometimes when I have fun, I just live in Qi’s house.
Fan Zijin and Xiao Xia’s family didn’t mind, because they also came here every now and then to eat together. Anyway, the two families are close to each other, and they can come and go by opening a door in the middle, and the two families live as a family.
Xiao Xia was a little embarrassed at first, since Fan Zijin and Qi Haoran are as close as brothers, who always eat at neighbor’s house.
Moreover, Mu Yangling also prepared rooms for them in the Qi Mansion. Sometimes they stayed in the mansion when they were tired and didn’t want to leave. This is great, the whole family stayed overnight.
Even though Xiao Xia and Mu Yangling have become best friends, she was very embarrassed for a while, thinking that they took too much advantage of the Qi family.
But no one felt out of place except her.
As time passed, she also understood that the relationship between Fan Zijin and Qi Haoran was so good, this kind of trivial matter was nothing to them at all, just like Qi Haoran didn’t treat himself as an outsider when he went to Fan’s residence.
And Ah Ling is broad-minded, and grew up with Zijin since childhood, and she is also a best friend, so there is really no need to mind, she gradually let go, although she is ashamed to go in and out of Qi Mansion as her own home like her husband, but Also more comfortable.
And Mu Yangling is really good at raising children, and many problems that she finds difficult are not a problem in her hands.
Not only Xiao Xia, but even Fan Zijin, who was very picky about Mu Yangling, had to admit that she was good at raising children.
Of course, Fan Zijin didn’t think that the other party was smart, but because she had experience. As the eldest sister, would her younger siblings and cousins below her be able to raise children?
It was more reasonable for him to leave the child to Mu Yangling and Qi Haoran, and he didn’t take much care of the child’s education after the birth of his second son.
He knew that there was insidiousness engraved in his bones, Xiao Xia’s character was cowardly, and he could only spoil children. If the child was raised by them, the child they would teach would be a lawless and sinister villain.
Even if he is high and powerful, he doesn’t want his son to cheat him and the whole Fan family someday in the future.
And Qi Haoran is open-minded, cheerful, and has a three-point childish personality, so he is very good at playing with children. If the children can learn half of his open-mindedness and optimism, they will benefit from it in their lifetime.
What’s more, the little bear and the twins are all carved out of the same mold as Qi Haoran when he was a child. Qi Haoran could lead him to the right path when he was so deviant when he was a child.
The education problem of his sons was solved, and Fan Zijin was more at ease to focus on his work. He never thought that he would need to educate a few children by himself.
So when Qi Haoran came to the door, he couldn’t help but widen his eyes.
Qi Haoran spoke very clearly, instead of teaching the children how to behave, he should teach the children how to behave.
Several big characters have been formed, and Xiao An is also a good boy with a kind heart. Fan Zijin doesn’t have to worry that teaching them at this time will teach them badly.
However, he and Ah Ling seem to have taught the children too much, and the children are all overly kind. This is not a bad thing in their class, but it is not a good thing either.
They all hope that their children will have a bright future, but they also need to know something about the dark side, so that they won’t be tricked into schemes in the future.
Moreover, as the children got older, their problems became more and more serious. He and Ah Ling had limited education, so they couldn’t handle it.
So he hoped that Zijin could also participate in the education of the children. Anyway, the children had already learned to think, had their own ideas, and their personalities were half-formed, so he was not afraid that Fan Zijin would lead them astray unconsciously.
Therefore, Fan Zijin began to officially take over the education of the children.
Only after teaching the children did he understand the helplessness Qi Haoran felt when the children asked questions. He only taught three children, but they had a lot of questions, okay? So many that he wanted to beat them up?
Since it was a training for a few children to have superior IQs, Fan Zijin, in addition to academic guidance, discussed with the children the major issues in the court and the country’s progress.
For example, the problem of the aristocratic family.
Qi Xiuyuan hates aristocratic families, the main reason is that he steals national wealth to enrich himself, but aristocratic families only have shortcomings and no advantages?
Absolutely not, not to mention that there are good and bad people in any ethnic group, but the background of the family has cultivated many talents for the country, and many of them are dedicated to the country and the people. Then the question arises, how should they treat the family?
It can’t be destroyed, because it will make people feel cold, let alone support the family like Emperor Jingyan, that is going the old way of Jin and Tang, and the disadvantages outweigh the benefits.
It is impossible for such a problem to be raised in the court, so it can only be discussed in private. Fan Zijin and Qi Xiuyuan Rongxuan have discussed this problem many times, but so far there is no good solution.
He didn’t even think about the three children to come up with an effective solution. He just used it to tell them the complexity of the relationship. There are not only two things between people: peace and sharing, bad and good. When the interests are the same, you can make peace by dividing. You can also partially and…
Fan Zijin felt that the topic he was talking about was very profound, so he taught them word by word, clearly and slowly, hoping that they could understand better.
But who knows, as soon as he finished speaking, his extremely clever son said: “Isn’t this just seeking common ground while reserving differences? When we are unable to subdue them and have common interests, we will seek common ground while reserving differences, and we will resolve differences later.”
Fan Zijin: “…”
He choked for a while before asking, “Where did the word seek common ground while reserving differences come from?”
The little bear and the twins looked confused, “Isn’t it from the beginning?”
Xiaoan was also confused, but he tilted his head and thought for a moment, then said: “It’s what the fourth aunt said, Dayuan and Xixia are weak now, but we Daqi can’t subdue them in one go, so the three parties are still in a confrontational situation, and The small battle at the border has never stopped. The fourth aunt said that at this time we can start a war with the two countries for border trade. They want our food, tea and salt, and we want their horses, medicinal materials and leather goods. Retain opinions and develop mutual relations based on common interests first.”
Little Xiong straightened his chest and said: “My mother said that when we have more contacts with the two countries and let them deeply understand our Daqi’s friendship and ability, maybe we can subdue them without a single soldier. After all The lands where Dayuan and Xixia were located were once our vassal states of China, and they were unified into one state, so the wars that have been plaguing the people on our frontiers will no longer be a problem.”
Fan Zijin felt that Mu Yangling and the children were too naive, but he still thought about it.